Well here is what I think. Heck maybe I can get someone to listen, my wife won't LOL.
I hooked up the Ipod cord and extension myself. I believe the 3mm adaptor would work on top of the droid and it plugs into the factory location. However, it is located behind the headlight and 12" might not be enough length. You would be able to listen to your music but NOT be able to control anything from the factory buttons either.
2013 AntiFreeze Green
D&D exhaust, Gust. Smoke +2 Flip or 7" Dk Smoke shield, Kickers with Rockford Fosgate Amp, Vic Pass. Backrest & lots of extra chrome.
2011 Victory Blue XC - Traded
2007 Honda Blue VTX - Traded