When you need parts, check in the website links section at TCVR, I posted a huuuuuge list of the best places to buy custom Vic stuff. It's pretty much all the best places, I don't think I missed any of value.
As far as the forum... Meh. Met a few of them, and after that chose not to ride with them. I won't go into details, just not the type of people I would want to ride with honestly. Nice folks though.
2012 HD Road Glide Custom - Black denim